It has always been that simple, but it took so much bravery for you to do something simple. I have really good friends, but they live all over the place and whenever I think of moving (to a city where I want to live but where none of my friends are) the idea of having no friends nearby and the idea of how I’d find the guts to talk to a stranger just stop me and leave me stuck back home, in a place I dislike, yet has the comfort of people to meet for lunch once in a blue moon.
Kate - you are a gift. Even though this is your experience, there were pieces that I could relate to. You have overcome so much, and I'm proud of you! I know not every day is a breeze, but you do what you can, and I admire that. It reminds me of something I read a few weeks ago: Even when you only have 40% to give, if you give that 40%, you gave 100%.
When I was young I made up a family that included abandoned kids that were in a band. They all came together from dysfunctional families to live in an aunt's apartment and were fiercely loyal to each other. This family got me through a traumatic childhood as well as the nights after my mother abandoned me. I always think mine is the worst story, but it isn't, unfortunately it is just one of many. I am so glad you saw your way through, here with us as we heal together.
You truly are remarkable and resourceful and inspiring. I relate very much to finding family in characters and learning from them 💜💜💜 thank you as always
Your writing style and thought processes made the growth and discoveries you covered so honestly, even more riveting and engrossing. As usual, you have left me spellbound. Xo
Love this Kate. So brave. I am so very much not athletic and going to the squash courts even by myself would make me scared and self conscious now. Making friends is always hard, no matter your age bc you have to make yourself vulnerable to rejection. You're a rock star Kate. 💜
Making friends has always been excruciating for me. I have a voice that lives inside my head that tells me that people don’t really like me; they find me annoying or weird; they don’t want me around, etc. It doesn’t help that I’m super shy, super anxious, and most of my hobbies are solitary pursuits. I do feel lonely sometimes but mostly I’ve contented myself alone or with my partner. I do have one good friend since my childhood. She’s more sister than friend at this point. But she has a condition that requires chemotherapy thus her immune system is compromised so we haven’t been in the same room together in years. We keep up via text mostly. It is encouraging to read your story. Maybe I can somehow find the courage to just leave the house and find people. Thank you for sharing this 😊
Thank you for sharing this! 💟
Thank you for reading it! 💜💜
Kate, you are amazing! Having lived this and now sharing it with us in the beautiful Kate way. Thank goodness for you. 💜💜💜
Thank you -- so much 💜💜💜
I’ve honestly been feeling pretty crummy and notes like this really help 💜
It has always been that simple, but it took so much bravery for you to do something simple. I have really good friends, but they live all over the place and whenever I think of moving (to a city where I want to live but where none of my friends are) the idea of having no friends nearby and the idea of how I’d find the guts to talk to a stranger just stop me and leave me stuck back home, in a place I dislike, yet has the comfort of people to meet for lunch once in a blue moon.
I totally relate - and I believe you could find your people in the new places you want to go!
Thank you for sharing your heart, reminds me there are still chances to meet our soul friends as I call them
It’s hard to remember more often than not. In this hyper connected digital world people feel farther away than ever.
Kate - you are a gift. Even though this is your experience, there were pieces that I could relate to. You have overcome so much, and I'm proud of you! I know not every day is a breeze, but you do what you can, and I admire that. It reminds me of something I read a few weeks ago: Even when you only have 40% to give, if you give that 40%, you gave 100%.
Thank you for sharing this soul bearing account of learning how to make friends as an adult. You are amazing.😊
When I was young I made up a family that included abandoned kids that were in a band. They all came together from dysfunctional families to live in an aunt's apartment and were fiercely loyal to each other. This family got me through a traumatic childhood as well as the nights after my mother abandoned me. I always think mine is the worst story, but it isn't, unfortunately it is just one of many. I am so glad you saw your way through, here with us as we heal together.
Thank you for sharing so much of yourself here with us! It’s an honor to be part of your journey and hear your stories!
Oh how hard you worked to be ok! And how far you've come...💜
Love you kate!
You truly are remarkable and resourceful and inspiring. I relate very much to finding family in characters and learning from them 💜💜💜 thank you as always
Your writing style and thought processes made the growth and discoveries you covered so honestly, even more riveting and engrossing. As usual, you have left me spellbound. Xo
Love this Kate. So brave. I am so very much not athletic and going to the squash courts even by myself would make me scared and self conscious now. Making friends is always hard, no matter your age bc you have to make yourself vulnerable to rejection. You're a rock star Kate. 💜
Loving this so much! Hooray for Kelly and for V’s speech and most of all for you, Kate 💜
Thank you for writing- I always look forward to reading your pieces! 💕
Making friends has always been excruciating for me. I have a voice that lives inside my head that tells me that people don’t really like me; they find me annoying or weird; they don’t want me around, etc. It doesn’t help that I’m super shy, super anxious, and most of my hobbies are solitary pursuits. I do feel lonely sometimes but mostly I’ve contented myself alone or with my partner. I do have one good friend since my childhood. She’s more sister than friend at this point. But she has a condition that requires chemotherapy thus her immune system is compromised so we haven’t been in the same room together in years. We keep up via text mostly. It is encouraging to read your story. Maybe I can somehow find the courage to just leave the house and find people. Thank you for sharing this 😊